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Hands

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You can tell a lot about someone simply by looking at their hands. I can recall a time, several years ago, when my hands were worn, cracked, and dry from pulling steel wrenches while lying under school buses eight hours a day. I still have a scar on my left hand from helping my dad load some scrap tin onto a ladder rack and having it slice my palm open. There is a bit of a calloused groove worn into the top joint of the middle finger on my right hand from years of note taking and figuring middle school math problems. Embarrassingly, there is a tiny scar on my right thumb from being shot through by a BB gun. There are all manner of scars, lines, and grooves worn by the natural happenings of life. I can remember my maternal grandmother's hands. Ma's hands were especially brown towards the tips of her middle and index fingers from a lifetime of smoking unfiltered cigarettes, but she still liked to wear rings--it even seemed as if she had one for each finger. Some were costume rubi

Stupid is as stupid does

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Momma always said, "Stupid is as stupid does." I think this may be one of the most profound statements ever made by a fictional character (from the movie, not Winston Groom's novel). The more I ponder on "Momma's" saying, the more true it becomes for me. I've seen a bus load of stupid lately, and I have to tell you, stupid is as stupid does, and there is a lot of stupid being done. Stupid is... When people seek their own gain at the detriment of another. Stupid is... the very notion that worth is based on the pigmentation of one's skin. Stupid is... when one person believes he or she is right, yet has never thought about why he or she is right. Stupid is... a crowd of people moving in one direction simply because they are the crowd. Stupid is... putting a gun in the hands of an angry idealist. Stupid is... practicing violence in the name of God. Stupid is... not loving your neighbor because of their choices. Stupid is... not listening. Stupid is.

Violence

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"Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth; I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; and one's foes will be members of one's own household. Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever does not take up the cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Those who find their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it." Call me a hippie, but I've been thinking a lot lately about war and peace. I think it has a lot to do with the current political climate in this country, particularly in the Deep South. Each morning I wake up with a cup of coffee and the news of another homicide, violent protest, or casualty of war. Why are we so obsessed with violence? I decided to lead this post with words fro